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With my writings I like to capture a little insight in my journey of healing and embodying my feminine.

Why not me?

Why not me? 12 October 2021 Why not me? One of the articles I came across that gave me some great insights was one written by Lucy Hone on resilient grieving. She basically says that if you are alive you will probably have to deal with some tough times in your life. Tragedy and sorrow will happen.  She wanted to be an active participant in her grieving process, and with all the tools and research she knew, find her way. […]

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I allow myself to be held

I allow myself to be held 10 October 2021 Allowing myself to be held In these four months I haven’t read a lot about grieving, mainly because I feel and I have felt that it takes me away from my own experience. Every now and then I came across some inspiring articles or posts that somehow have a different and inspiring view. The same with people. It has been so refreshing to for example meet our new GP that just […]

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Expanding Awareness

Expanding Awareness 9 October 2021 Expanding Awareness Today Baby Loss Awareness Week starts #blaw2021. Normally I am not so much into weeks and days like this, because there are so many that I just can’t keep up. Somehow this one feels different at this moment. I feel that I would like to write something every day, something I want to share on my journey of losing my baby. I had something in mind to write about, but like everything else […]

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A deep surrender into life

A deep surrender into life 22 September 2021 And here I am.  Dave and I call it the 3rd phase of our healing through stillbirth journey. Back in Cape Town after an important and long time in the Netherlands. Back to my roots. To the safety of my roots, and the healing of being in that safe womb-like space of my parents. The soil where I was born and raised. My home land.   Whilst writing this newsletter I am […]

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An unexpected awakening

An unexpected awakening 5 August 2021 An unexpected awakening from one of my clients, Mirjam Leslie, who took part in my Free your Feminine 7-week program: What my daughter already knows… …and I hope she does NOT unlearn as she matures. Not often do we tend to take the advice from a 5-year-old. Quite the contrary in fact. But there’s an innate wisdom in my daughter. Full disclosure: she’s not exceptionally bright or intellectually gifted. But when I look at […]

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