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With my writings I like to capture a little insight in my journey of healing and embodying my feminine.

Fertility + Female Sexuality

Fertility + Female Sexuality. 30 November 2020 ‘All the aspects of the journey – cycles, fertility, pregnancy, arousal, orgasm, birth and breast-feeding – are all part of the integral whole that is female sexuality. It is one of the tragedies of our culture that we’ve severed pregnancy, birth and breast-feeding from their messy, earthy, embodied sexual roots. To fully appreciate female sexuality, we must remember (and re-remember) these connections, which hold true at a primordial level whether the woman in […]

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It took me a long time

It took me a long time. 2 October 2020 And to be honest, I needed some help from the universe to put me to pause. I was always going, doing, full agenda, meeting people, chatting, socializing. And I loved it! Because I love people and I love the magic of life. But deep inside I was lonely, although I didn’t really knew it at that time. Or maybe I didn’t want to see it. I definitely did not wanted to […]

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It’s Time To Celebrate

It’s Time To Celebrate 23 September 2020 It is time to celebrate! Last week I received the news that I am now officially a Female Sexuality Coach. I love to celebrate with reflection, a looking back to how I have come here. Eighteen months of studying, and although it officially was a study of 3 days a week, I perceived it as a full time commitment. I guess it is part of my personality to really go and dive into […]

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Come As You Are

Come As You Are 28 January 2019 I am reading the amazing book #comeasyouare (by Emily Nagoski), and today I hit the chapter that is all about the emotional context. And stress. For a long time I believe stress only had to do with just being able to manage the tasks I had to do in life. How little did I know of stress that underlies worry, anxiety, fear, terror, all the variants of my flight mode. Or anger, irritation, […]

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Pure Heart of Love

Pure Heart of Love 26 January 2019 It took me a while to say yes to this utterly beautiful and intense course, but here I am, I am a student again. An online training that will keep me busy for about 600 hours this year learning everything about Sex, Love and Relationships. I am so so so excited and happy and looking forward for all that is too come. However, last week I was challenged to the max. Old pains, […]

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